Everyone knows that the prenatal ultrasound provides the opportunity for mom to bond with her baby to be. Even before she first feels movement, seeing that tiny heart's beating, watching those movements, makes it all real. There is ample literature to describe the maternal bonding experience. But what about dad? Few have studied his reactions to the process - that is until now. Dr. Tova Walsh and colleagues at the University of Michigan interviewed 22 expectant fathers after they viewed a midtrimester ultrasound.
They found that the ultrasound experience was an important moment for men, establishing the reality of the coming child, and reassuring them that all was going well with the pregnancy.
It also caused the men to reflect on their roles in the life of mother and child, making it an important practical and psychological preparation for parenthood. The study noted that the men’s “plans and dreams alike extended beyond the immediate future of infancy and across the child’s lifespan.”
One man told the researchers, “Now that we know that it’s a girl, you know, now I’m thinking about ... walking her down the aisle someday, you know, (I’m) thinking that far ahead ... which is crazy, but I mean, it’s like my brain went from bringing her into the world and taking care of her and making sure she is taken care of (as) to her future and everything ...”
Another had more immediate worries: “I need to make sure I have a steady job because my child eating depends on me. If I don’t work, he don’t eat. And I’d rather my child eat before I do.”
Dads have magic moments too.
Walsh is a Robert Wood Johnson Foundation Health & Society Scholar at the UW School of Medicine and Public Health. Her study, “Moving up the Magic Moment: Fathers’ Experience of Prenatal Ultrasound,” is being published in the winter 2014 edition of the journal "Fathering".
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